February 2012
“Sex will always be an exciting mystery to children, they’ll always want to know...”
– Steven Moffat (via tinysprout)
“The truth is, any sex act can be done incorrectly, against our will, or by...”
– Courtney Trouble | Queer Porn Icon | The Truth About Fisting. (via sexisnottheenemy)
“Sex-positivity is the belief that sex and sexiness are… okay. It’s the belief...”
– The Pervocracy: Sex-Pozzie. (via sexisnottheenemy)
“I often feel that, in so many areas of what we might call progressive politics...”
– CN Lester (The beauty myth and me… « a gentleman and a scholar)
“Obscenity is a curious criminal offence, and many would say that it now has no...”
– David Allen Green (Obscenity law in doubt after jury acquits distributor of gay pornography)
“Society’s wariness toward sex is highlighted by contrasting it with the greater...”
– Nadine Strossen (from ‘Defending Pornography: Free Speech, Sex and the Fight for Women’s Rights’)
“I think women are encouraged to be into sex, but we’re encouraged to be into sex...”
– Clarisse Thorn (Interview with a sex-positive feminist — Feministe)
“Upon turning sixty-five, I recognize that casual sex has often been as intimate...”
– Stanley Siegel (In Defense of Casual Sex | Psychology Today)
10 Wasted Minutes.: A friend asked me a couple... →
10wastedminutes:
A friend basically asked me a couple months ago why I’m such a feminist. Specifically a pro-choice, sex positive, anti-rape culture type feminist. We were applying for a grant to start an anti rape culture art project (because we’re edgy like that) and she said, “Why does it matter to you?” I…
Just Me, Just Me by Shel Silverstein
nicolebonaccorso:
Sweet Marie, she loves just me
(She also loves Maurice McGhee).
No she don’t, she loves just me
(She also loves Louise Dupree).
No she don’t, she loves just me
(She also loves the willow tree).
No she don’t, she loves just me!
(Poor, poor fool, why can’t you see
She can love others and sill love thee.)
indeed: i think the most disgusting part of the... →
frillysparklybutts:
i think the most disgusting part of the virgin/slut dichotomy is that if a woman has a lot of sex partners, it’s assumed that she’s “dirty” and will get pregnant immediately.
honestly. if she’s having sex often, don’t you think she’d be aware and be more careful?
and even if she doesn’t, it’s…
reading polyamory forums and the like.
kingreason:
It’s so interesting, I wish it was more mainstream, like there were tv shows and stuff with these kinds of relationships. Monogamy is not the only stable loving committed relationship model and more people should know it! Well there is sisterwives, but they sort of just make that family into this big joke, which is really too bad.
I don’t know yet if I would want to try it, because...
mrsmrsabrina:
Bisexuality/pansexuality: the ability to reach down someone’s pants and be satisfied with whatever you find.
This might always make me shudder. It’s not funny, and it’s so not me.
Sunglasses at Night: A message from the... →
damegreywulf:
From Faith in America:
“On any given morning you can find my wife, Chely Wright, and I having our coffee with the dogs, and reading through the morning news. We scan CNN, the Huffington Post, NYTimes, Wall Street Journal, The Advocate and beyond. This morning we stumbled upon two stories that…
It's annoying that I feel like I have to...
two-tickets-to-paradise:
…refer to my girlfriend as my “significant other” at work. Or anywhere where I feel uncomfortable. Yes, I’m out, but being here and out is too much different than being out at school. I hate this feeling of not knowing how people will react. I hate this feeling.
Just let me go back.
Sex by Numbers: Polyamory has gone from being a... →
sexweek:
It turns out that, no matter how successful they’ve been at negotiating relationships, many polyamorists still have one foot in the closet. And in a world where monogamy is not only well-entrenched but vital to the workings of a property-based society, their scene may always remain marginal.
That realization has caused many “ethical sluts” to treat open relationships not only as a...
“What kind of relationship you have is your choice, and one choice isn’t better...”
– The Pervocracy: The end of normal. (via sexisnottheenemy)
“If anyone of any gender has sexual thoughts or experiences about both women and...”
– Greta Christina (Is Everyone Basically Bisexual?)
“What kind of relationship you have is your choice, and one choice isn’t better...”
– The Pervocracy: The end of normal. (via sexisnottheenemy)
“Sex will always be an exciting mystery to children, they’ll always want to know...”
– Steven Moffat (via tinysprout)
“I’ve talked with quite a few men about what they’ve learned from pegging and...”
– Charlie Glickman (How Pegging Can Help Save The World)
“When I ask my students at the beginning of my Men and Masculinity course about...”
– (via hugoschwyzer)
“I used to do [porn] a fair amount, back in the “by women for women” feminist...”
– Greta Christina (Why I Probably Won’t Do Porn Again: Sexism and Being a Woman on the Internet)
“Sex education should focus not just on the mechanics of heterosexual sex and how...”
– Simone Webb (Underage sex isn’t automatically a problem | Comment is free | The Guardian)
The Polyamorous Misanthrope: You Have to Choose →
polyamorousmisanthrope:
Hi Java, I’ve been with my man 9 years and am deeply in love with him, however, I’m also in love with another woman. I’ve loved her since before I met him - but only recognised recently that it was sexual (I’ve always believed I was straight).
I told my partner and he went nuts. We talked…
